Been up for a while. Trying to deduce a network issue on the other machine. I think this week will be reformatting week. It's just acting flakey. Been almost 2 years since I got that machine. Time to wipe clean. That's one thing I miss about the macs. You don't have to do that kind of shit.
Did a bunch of shit yesterday. Went to the grocery store in the morning, took the cat to the vet around noon, cleaned the house, made a lasagne for dinner. A filled day. Nothing exciting going on either which is nice. Sometimes you want the boredom. I wasn't happy taking the cat to the vet at noon on a Saturday. They close at 1 so it was like way too crowded. Plus I like the crew that works during the week better. The weekend doctor is meh. Luckily it was just for vaccines so the time the cat spent in there was minimal.
No plans for today. B is going over to her friend's house and they're doing a pot luck fajita bar. I will be having a steak. I was thinking about this last night. Some people might wonder why I don't get upset at B going over to her friend's place without me. Why don't I go too? A few reasons. One, I don't like the house she goes over to. It's a dump. I know that's a rude thing to say but it's true. The guys that live there are growers and not the best in terms of housekeepers. Every time I've had to go there I feel like something is going to crawl out and bite me. Like Ross that time he dated the messy girl. But that aside, it's more I really don't have much in common with these people. Their idea of fun is sitting around getting high and watching cartoons. Hey, nothing wrong with that if you're doing it on the weekend. But that's their hole life. It's like watching Pineapple Express in real time. Plus they have the kind of house where people are always coming and going because, well, it's that kind of house. It just isn't my scene. I also think it's important for us to both have our own interests. I have observed that there are two different type of people when it comes to this and in some ways it's an age/maturity/background thing. See, older people who have been together forever recognize the need for space in a relationship. I don't go for the whole let's take separate vacations where one goes to HI and the other FL but I do think it's good for people to be able to have their own space. The older you get, the more you see that. Today's younger people also seem to be more in tune with that concept. It's the middle tier that doesn't get it. Or the insecure. The kind where they feel they need to be attached at the hip to their partner. Meh. But there's other people at that house! Yeah and? My wife is an adult who knows how to handle herself and I trust her. Period. It's taken me many, many years, but I am over the abuse of X1 and can be free of the doubt and insecurity she put on my shoulders. It's freeing. So yeah, I'm having a nice steak tonight.
Semi-busy week ahead. Anniversary on wednesday.
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