Monday, May 5, 2014

Y5 D345

Yesterday was pretty good but it ended on a bit of a sad note. Sad is the best way to describe it too. Not upset, not bad, just kind of sad. Not my fault either. I am dealing with the same problem with B that I had with the kid - their inability to make friends on their own. The difference is I feel more indebted to B to help her than I did to the kid. I am the reason B lives here now and therefore I feel more of an obligation to help her out.

I got up yesterday at 9:30 and caught up on the week's news, read my morning comics, etc. B got up around 1:30, yes 1:30. Talk about sleeping in. I made us pancakes and bacon which was fun to eat at 2 in the afternoon. We then went and ran some errands. B needed some new shoes and it looks like later this week we will be fostering one of the cats at her work until a permanent home can be found for it. I told her this was all on her and if she wanted this to happen then she has to be the one to by the supplies. We stopped at the pet store where she got all the needed stuff. This should be interesting. When we got back B watched some TV while I played Diablo. Got my barbarian to level 62. Afterwards B was craving mexican food and we found a little place neither of us had been to before. The food was fantastic. Great place. A little slow on the service, but the food made up for that. We got back home and both of us were stuffed. We relaxed for a while and then around 8 had the sex. Yay! That part was great. It was later around 10 as we were laying there that B hits me with "would you ever consider living in MI". Um no. Not my part of the world. I would not be happy there. The end result was her feeling homesick and since I am about to be out of town again for the next few days, lonely. She misses her friends. Most of her friends she has known since childhood. She admitted it's hard for her to make friends and she was feeling very lonely for them as she thought about me being out of town. I was honest and told her that while I can't empathize, I can hold her as that really was all I could do at that time.

Fell asleep, but I think she was up much longer. Oh well. Like I said, a sad ending to a good day.

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