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So I was sitting working on my puzzle last night when I had an epiphany of sorts. No, nothing amazing like how to cure cancer or solve world peace. No. Sorry. I am too self centered to come up with something to benefit all mankind. However, my thoughts did lead to something that I want to share. I was trying to figure out what is 'wrong' with me in the sense of relationships and matters of the heart. The bottom line I realized is nothing. Not a fucking thing. Nope. Instead, it's the rest of the world with the problem. See, self centered. But not so much that I won't offer unto you my people this bit of life advice…

Love. Love a lot. Love often. Fall in love fast and with every fiber of your being. Seriously. And I am not talking to Jesus love thy neighbor crap. Nor am I saying being kind to everyone because some people are just peasants and not worthy. I mean the person you want to be with. Love them. Find them and love them. Love them for as long as it lasts too. Stop worrying about 'is this the one' or 'are they my life partner'. Because the more you worry about finding 'the one' you end up with NO ONE. I would rather love a thousand times in my life and deal with a thousand broken hearts than to never try at all. So the next time you see that cute girl in the bar, or that guy walking down the street - take a fucking chance. Say hi. Ask them out. Love them. Love them with everything you got. Be theirs. You say to me though, what f it ends? Yeah so? It ends. Take something away from it. Learn from it. And then do it again. And again and again. People leave. People die. People change. Stop worrying about if they are going to be here tomorrow and love them today. Love them right now. If you have someone, turn to them right now and tell them you fucking love them. Hold their hand. Smile for them. Write a message in the steam on the mirror while they are taking a shower. Love their laugh, love their smile, love them. Because yeah, they might not be here tomorrow and it is going to hurt like a son of a bitch. You are going to dwell and contemplate everything you did wrong only to realize you did nothing wrong. Things happen. You don't blame yourself if your significant other gets in a car accident on the way home and dies do you? Well you shouldn't. But either way, they're gone. So it doesn't matter how is the point. Enjoy the goddamn moment. Enjoy a million moments. You will have adventures and stories and memories. You will be a better person in the end. They will be better people from having been with you. The next person they love will know they are this way because of someone who loved them before. The same for you. So get out there today and fall in love. Fall head over heels weak in the knees brain dead in love. I know I plan to…