Woke up around 7 and let everyone else sleep while I ran errands. I went and bought a wedding present for later in the day from me and TGF and one from the kid and KBF. Also went to Target and got some stuff for around the house. Got back around 9 and the kid and KBF were up. I made them pancakes and when TGF got up, made her breakfast too. We all hung out and relaxed during the day until it was time to get ready for the wedding. Luckily the wedding was less than 10 minutes away from my place which meant we didn't have to rush or stress about getting there. It was scheduled to start at 3:30 with appetizers and mingling but I got a couple of calls from friends who did have to drive letting me know they were getting rooms at the hotel and would be there earlier. We headed over around 3:30. This is where the fun started...
So my director who hates TGF was there with her husband. We were all standing outside waiting for things to begin when TGF and I hear her CLEARLY say 'Well it must be Daddy issues.' This was followed by her husband saying something we couldn't hear and her responding with 'I'm not getting into a fight tonight'. Well that pissed me and TGF off. We played it cool but we were both steaming. Add to this the fact that when we arrived she totally turned her back on us and refused to even say hello. In seven fucking months, she has yet to even once say hello to TGF. It was clear to one of our friends that TGF was pissed and he pulled her aside and said 'don't be like her. it's her issue, not yours'. I appreciated that.
We tried to ignore the issue but then as we were all sitting down for the ceremony I was 'summoned' over to her highness and told 'Your girlfriend better stop giving me the stinkeye'. I replied with 'if she is, it's only because she thought you were giving her one as well'. To which I got 'this is just my face'. I tried to play nice but all it did was raise my anger level. TGF was smoking pissed at this point too. Luckily we were at separate tables for dinner, but it wasn't over yet.
Now in between all this bullshit drama was one of the most beautiful weddings I have seen. The bride and groom were just so happy and looked fantastic. There were so many cute moments between the two of them it was like pure sugar giving you diabetes. While it was freezing because we were outside for the ceremony, it was still magical. Even the Rabbi acknowledged it was cold and tried to move things along quickly. We all appreciated that.
Back inside we sat down for dinner, dancing, cake, etc. We had fun getting out on the dance floor and having a good time. We left around 9, TGF headed home around 9:15 and I was in bed by 10, asleep by 10:30. You'd think that would be the end of the day, right? Oh no, you see while I was sleeping I got the following texts from my director:
10:58pm - we need to talk asap
11:02pm - you need to call me now
11:31pm - good to know
I responded via email this morning saying I am sorry I missed your texts, call me today. Let's see how this plays out. I am not expecting it to end well.
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