Comparatively speaking to past days, yesterday was uneventful. If you're thinking, well that doesn't say much since the last few posts have been crazy, well, you're right. I got up my normal time to do some work. B on the other hand unbeknownst to me. didn't fall asleep until I was getting up. B suffers from RLS along with everything else going on with them. They had a bad attack of it. Normally they have supplements that help, but the antibiotics they were taking for the bladder infection were screwing with the supplements. Some nights their legs get so bad they can sleep. That was Sunday night for them. As a result, they slept until almost noon. Don't blame them, that really sucks to be fair. I have mild RLS which gets triggered by stress and other factors like travel, and when it hits, it's rough. What I will point out however is that while they were awake having issues, apparently they were all over the dating and BFF site making new connections. On one of the dating sites, they matched up with their aunt's best friend. Ew. But that's not for me to judge. Unfortunately this person is pretty far out and I would discourage that kind of driving right now due to gas and construction. It's the same distance I went for that breakfast date and yeah, it's just too far in my mind.
Anyway, I worked, B got up, and they went over to R's house. First time seeing them in quite a while. We both were curious to see how it would go. Now, they left around one I would say, and were home by six. Normally they would have stayed for dinner, etc but nope. Part of it is that CGF is still part of that friend group and the conversations kept including or involving them. Oops. While B was out, I went to the mall to get some shoes and look at coats for winter. Succeeded on the shoes, failed on the coat. Oh well. I was planning on taking a nice bath as I expected B home late, but those plans got derailed. I also first stopped at MCGF's work as it is near the mall (and retail) to hang out and flirt more. Yeah, I got the hots for this girl. I am looking forward to our date Wednesday. I think this was also impacting B's mood as they realized what is about to happen and because we haven't been as closed off on what is happening. We're being more honest about things and it's hitting them. Welcome to what I went through for weeks.
Because they came home all in a funk, they pretty much spent the rest of the night on apps again. Mostly it was the friends app. I think they realize they need a new friend circle even if it is in the short term. They met one person who they are going to hang out with on Friday possibly. Okay cool. I did feel a little ignored, but you know what, we've had a good couple of days. It's all good.
Today I have a meeting early, then I teach, then I am headed to group. B is going over to Z's for the first time. I also know B talked with a couple of friends last night who lately have felt B disconnected from them due to CGF. Welcome to the club people. But I get it. B was doing some damage control and is hanging at Z's tomorrow as a result. All good. I won't be home until 11pm or so myself. Maybe a little earlier tonight. Tuesday's were a primary sex day before and I was staying out late as a result. Not needed tonight.
See? A quiet day. Yeah. Right.
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