ANA Y1 D9

I was up until 2 again, hence why this post is coming at 8am. But at least this time I managed to get some sleep. Six hours is better than 19 minutes. It was a very long day, I am upset at my wife for being too nice of a person, but hey, what else is new. 

I was up and just basically hanging out doing nothing until 9am when B finally got up. They wanted to know if I slept. I told them straight up no, and here's why: "when you got up to shower, you closed the door which caused the cats to immediately start banging on it, the dog started moving all over, and I was awake. Then though, you get back into bed, and you start in on the damn phone with the brightness turned up and it just kept me awake". That made them think about their actions and they apologized to me. I appreciated the apology but am more concerned it doesn't happen again. 

Around 12:30 we headed out to go to the Pride celebration in the nearby gay town. No, really. This city is considered the SF of MI. They have rainbow crosswalks normally not just in June. We got there at 12:55 which was perfect because the official stuff was from 1-8. Right on time. It's me, B, and the two friends of B. To summarize the day, we had fun. We met up with B's aunt and cousin, we saw B's other cousin and bf, we saw all the booths, we saw a couple of random people I know from group, we ate, we shopped, we had a good day. Around 5, both B and I were sunburnt, tired, and ready to go. The two friends were not. Our other friend had shown up, but they didn't get there until 3 and were not ready to leave. Fair. So the three of them decided to stay and uber back to our place where their car and stuff were waiting. 

B and I get home, no issues there, and take a quick one hour nap. We have some food and wait. Around 8 we get a message asking if a fire and chill was good. B responded with yes, if  you are headed back here soon. No problem. All good. Yeah right. The next time we heard from them was after midnight. I had decided at midnight I was going to bed no matter what. About 12:20 B hears from them. They are misspelling words, not making sense, etc. At 1:30 I am awoken by sounds so I watch the doorbell camera (which I got setup yesterday morning while I was doing nothing) and here they come, the two drunks. Not happy at all with them. They are in the guest room right now, but I am not showing them any kindness. They took advantage of B's liberal heart and that pisses me off. You're in my space, respect it. 

So we will see what happens today. B and I are supposed to have a quiet day with B's dad coming over to help us do some gutter and house work. On top of that, we were going to start Stranger Things. This is why I am pissed someone is here taking over our time. 

In other news, I made a real connection on an app last night. Someone who is an actual adult who was able to straight up tell me what they wanted, that they are looking for a sex partner only, what kind of sex they want, and what they will give in return. CIS female, 27. Perfect. Let's do this. We're going to meet for coffee next week, if we mesh, we will plan a sex day. Nothing more, nothing less. We do have to get a hotel because they are in the same position as me where they cannot have partners in the house. Fair. I am good with this. I also have a dinner date confirmed on the 13th with another transwoman. Welcome to my summer of fun bitches.