ANA Y1 D83

For the first time in a week I had a tinnitus flare up. Why? Because my spouse just is a real piece of art. Like for real. Story time.

I hung out here until noon. Went to the house missing B completely. Checked the camera before I left to make sure they had pulled out of the garage. I arrived around 12:30, they left at almost noon exact. Perfect. I did laundry, unloaded some stuff, cleaned out the back of my truck for this weekend. Starting pre-packing some things too. Took the cats to the vet at 2pm. The one cat has two to three more weeks max sadly. The mass has doubled again. It's just going to keep getting worse. Came back, unloaded the cats, and got the hell out of there. Managed to not see or interface with B. Success.

I went bowling with a friend last night. As I was headed to the bowling alley, B messaged me and asked if I minded if they went to Chicago this weekend. WTF? They want to drive their new bitch and her kid to the funeral for the friend that killed themselves. Um, who's paying for this shit? Who's watching the dog for 9+ hours? Are you spending the night with her? Are you kidding me? But of course I had to watch how I said all that. Had to say it in a polite way of "of course I want you to help a FRIEND". Oh and B had to start the conversation by clarifying they have "pulled back on a physical relationship with them". Like that's supposed to make it better?? I was really cautious in how I responded and basically didn't say yes or no. I put the decision on them after pointing out many things wrong with their plan. Ultimately this is a test of their behavior. Which leads us to the real issue. The next thing they message me is can their new friend come inside to meet the dog when they get picked up for their date. How am I supposed to respond to that?!?! But then the date stays in my house until 11pm. Now, did anything physical happen? Unknown, but the fact that they brought someone into our home pisses me off. Like here we go again being humiliated and disrespected. Nope. Done.

I did have fun bowling. Went to bed around 11. Have to grocery shop and pack today and then I am gone for three days. Bye fucking bye bitch.